Make Your Ex Come Back!

A lot of issues in marriages come from lack of communication. In fact most of them do. A lot of these types of problems are caused by one of the people in the relationship thinking that the other person knows what he or she wants, needs or is thinking. So many times a couple will get into an argument because one person expected something from the other person and also expected that other person to know that it was expected.
Sandy and Steve had been married for 7 years and Valentines day was coming up. Steve was a good husband and never forgot about things like that so he made reservations for them to go out to eat that night. He was excited all day about it and couldn’t wait. When Sandy got home from work she had a box of chocolates, some flowers a card and a balloon to give to Steve. Steve was standing there with nothing to give to his wife that he loved. He didn’t think much of it since they had discussed their plans earlier and he had assumed that taking he out to dinner was going to be fine. However Sandy didn’t think that way, she got upset and started crying and saying how he didn’t love her because he didn’t buy her anything. She had seen her co-workers all day receiving flowers and chocolates and then when her man didn’t get her anything she snapped. Had Steve known he was supposed to get her flowers and chocolates or that she was going to be getting him stuff he of course would of made the ten minute trip to the store but because of a lack of communication he thought that he was already doing what was expected of him. An argument ensued and they ended up getting divorced. He told her she was insane to cause such a big damn deal over something so dumb and she told him that he didn’t love her or care about her because he hadn’t bought her anything.
This whole thing could of easily been avoided had Sally just told Steve what she expected of him. Instead her secret expectations caused all kinds of problems when they weren’t fulfilled.
Never assume that the other person knows what you are thinking or needing from them and at the very least don’t get all upset and blame them when they don’t do something that you thought they should do but never bothered to tell them about.

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